FAQ's
Frequently asked questions

Questions

Answers from Toja

How can I ad a new prisoner? Download my form and send it to him/her.
What are the costs for him/her to place an ad? It is free.
What can I send to him? It depends in what prison he is in.
Don't send him anything else beside your letter or written postcard until you have asked him what the mail rules are at the place he is in.
What address do I need to write to a prisoner? Write the address as it is written in the ad.
Can I send money? Ask the prisoner if and how he can receive money. Many can receive US Postal Money Orders. Others can receive a US Postal Money Order to an Inmate Trust Fund. The prisoner will give you the informations and/or the necessary form.
Can I send books, newspapers etc.? Ask the prisoner. The most prisoners can receive them directly from the publisher (Amazon, bookshop etc.).
Can I send photos? Ask the prisoner. The most prisoners are allowed to receive photos (no polaroids, no nude ones).
How can I find a prisoner who got transfered?

For Federal Prisoners (they have a # like: #....-...) go to www.bop.gov
For State Prisoners go to the Inmate Locator.
Unfortunately not all States have an online Inmate Locator. Then you can call the DOC (Department of Corrections) and ask.

I have a loved one in prison, feel alone and have so many open questions. Do you know where I could meet other people in the same situation? Go to www.prisontalk.com
There are many people in the same situation.
Have prisoners access to e-mail and internet? No
I want to visit him. What do I have to do? Ask the prisoner and he/she will send you a visitor form and give you the necessary informations. When you are approved to visit the prisoner, he/she will tell you. Ask the prisoner also to send you the needed informations about visits in a prison (what to wear, what to bring with you etc.)
I will visit an inmate but don't know where to stay and the way to prison. Ask the prisoner. Perhaps there are friends outside who can help you with a ride or stay. Or try to find a support group for the State he/she is in and ask there. A good place to ask is on www.prisontalk.com
I have further questions and find no answer here. Send me an e-mail and I will try to help you.
How do you finance this service? I pay all by myself but need donations....
How up-to-date are the informations on this website? When I receive a note from the prisoner with new informations, address etc. I add it asap.
When I have time I control the addresses of prisoners from States with an online Inmate Locator and of Federal Prisoners.
But I request the prisoners to send new informations to me to make their ads up-to-date.
What should a prisoner do if he/she has a new address or wants to change the ad? Tell him/her to send me the changes.
Are prisoners allowed to work?

It depends where he is at, if there is work for inmates, if he decide to work, and if he is allowed to work.
Prisoners on Death Row or in Administrative Segretion (the hole) are mostly not allowed to work.

What to do if a prisoner wants to ad a photo, drawing beside his/her ad? Tell him/her to send me what he wants to ad together with the information if I should send the items back.
How safe is it to write to a prisoner? What is safe in our life?
You can open a Post Box address, so your real address is not known by the prisoner.
If you feel more comfortable you can give him your home address if wanted.
I want to know for what crime he/she is in prison. Ask the prisoner. You can also call the prison and ask his/her counselor. There are also States with an inmate locator with further informations. There are also States that have a Sex-Offender list online, or a phone # where you can call and ask for it.
What should I do if I made bad experiences with a prisoner from your website? Please let me know. At least I can remove him from the website and write to him, so others will not go through the same as you.
Are prisoners allowed to call? Yes, but it depends. There are several restrictions possible. Ask the prisoner.
Can I call the prisoner? No.
In urgent situations you can call the prison and ask if they would forward a message or bring him to the phone.
The best I think is, to ask for his/her counselor.
Have you checked the prisoners on your website if they are good pen-pals and not abuse their pen-pals for some reason? No
That is impossible and not my business.
But I remove prisoners when I know they abused a pen-pal.
And I collect at the moment informations from pen-pals about their experiences with prisoners who played bad games.
Do you know for what crimes the prisoners on your website are in prison? No
I don't ask, that is not my business.
How is your opinion about the Death Penalty? If the law does not allow people to kill somebody, then this same law should be the same also for the States, Countries.

The most Countries have no Death Penalties and the criminality is more less then in the States in USA with a Death Penalty.

And - the humankind should know other ways in this days to realize that to kill people in the name of the State is not the right way.

The State should look for ways for prisoners with a life sentence (people on Death Row have a life sentence....), how they could pay back something to the community. This could be with projects to prevent kids on risk to end in prison, work-programs for the poors etc.

And because people always ask about how many an inmate costs the tax-payer, I think there are many ways inmates could work and pay back for their costs. This would be much cheaper as people on Death Row who are not alowed to work.
And it would make more sense....
Why you started this service? I would give especially Native American prisoners a free place to make contact to people in the free world.
Why is your service free? I want my service to be for every Native American Prisoner. If it would not be free, then again, the quote "with money you can buy all" seems to be true again.
And the poor ones would be punished and discriminated again.
There is much that can not be paid with money....
How can I support your service?

We are grateful if you can support our service and appreciate every donation.
You can become a member of Worldwide Friends >>>

We are always in need of:

  • Money donations to pay the costs for the website, stamps, paper, envelopes, urgent needs of prisoners, phone costs etc.
  • Stamps (US and Switzerland)
  • Ink for the printer (HP DeskJet 990Cxi)